(It’s Long!) My Parents Are So Screwed Up & I Am Pretty Darn Sick of it…HELP!?

Question by *_Wish youu were here_*: (It’s long!) My parents are so screwed up & I am pretty darn sick of it…HELP!?
Okay so they are separated, they have been since Oct. 2007, so like 1 1/2 yrs…my dad was always a jerk to begin with,I think he is Narcissistic(sp?) like he always makes fun of me & my lil sis, like calling us stupid, dumb retarded….he is so juvenile too, like he has the mentality of a teenager really. He has no “normal” friends, unless you consider an alcoholic who drives drunk w/his son in the car & an oxy cotton/cocaine addict “normal”. He hates women, I think cuz he says,”all women are crazy.” And I’m a GIRL!!! He isn’t supportive either. But we dealt w/him in family therapy….it’s a lil better….

My mom- she can be ok at times but she is kinda crazy too. Her mental friends call at all hours….she loves to bash my dad but I don’t feel comfortable doing that w/her….if I’m talking to her while shes on the computer about idk school she won’t listen but if its about my dad, oh boy she’ll stop w/e she’s doing and listen and bash him. She’s one to pull guilt trips too, making me feel guilty about stuff. I HATE that…she never wants to hear anything she doesn’t want to hear. Even if I’m tactful, she’ll get mad & freak out. We were friends with this crazy family who I came to like & come close with the lady & the lady suddenly ditched us(she’s like bipolar & an alcoholic, except she won’t admit it) & now all of a sudden my mm is like talking to this lady’s husband like they’re old friends again when we haven’t been friends for a year! I told her about it nicely & she freaked out, saying it’s none of my business, blah blah blah….

My point is w/my mom we can’t calmly discuss anything. If I tell her nicely not to do something, she’ll do it anyway. She thinks she’s normal & everyone else has to change. She never apologizes, I always end up apologizing just so she’ll give me back stuff even though I didn’t do anything. I’m so sick of it, I have to hold all my feelings inside or else she’ll throw me out of the house(she does it all the time) I don’t think we have a normal relationship…HELP!?

BTW, I’m 14.

Best answer:

Answer by Desiree
you need to talk to a school counselor.she is not allowed to through you out at such a young age and that is illegal.

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